Relationship Pattern Analyzer

Share messages that concern you, and we'll help you understand what patterns might be present.

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Your Privacy Matters

Your messages are analyzed locally and are not stored or shared. This tool is for educational purposes and not a substitute for professional counseling.

Share Your Messages

Enter up to three messages that made you feel uncomfortable, confused, or concerned. For the most accurate analysis, include messages from recent emotionally intense conversations.

Message 1 *

Message 2 (optional)

Message 3 (optional)

Safety Checklist

Optional but recommended. Check any that apply to your situation:

Partner has access to firearms or weapons

Partner threatened to kill you

Partner threatened you with a weapon

Partner has ever choked you, even if you considered it consensual at the time

Partner injured or threatened your pet(s)

Partner has broken your things, punched or kicked walls, or thrown things

Partner forced or coerced you into unwanted sexual acts

Partner threatened to take away your children

Violence has increased in frequency or severity

Partner monitors your calls/GPS/social media

None of the above apply to my situation

Analysis Results

Results will appear here after analysis...

📝 Share Your Messages

Enter messages that made you uncomfortable or concerned:

Message 1 (required)

🛡️ Safety Planning

If you're concerned about your safety, here are immediate resources and steps you can take.

🚨 Emergency Resources

911 - For immediate danger

1-800-799-7233 - National DV Hotline (24/7)

Text START to 88788 - Crisis Text Line

988 - National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

💚 Support Resources

thehotline.org - Online chat support

Local counseling services - Professional support

Trusted friends/family - Personal support network

Legal advocacy - Know your rights

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